Woman Married to (or in a Relationship with)  

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a Man with a Circumcised Penis

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As a woman married to (or in a relationship with) a circumcised man, you can expect some wonderful things from this book, for it brings the promise of greater overall happiness between the sheets—and pages—of your life.  Gentler sex, more sensuous sex, more satisfying sex, increased attainment of orgasm from intercourse, can be yours—giving you new insight into the joy that lovemaking can bring when nature is on your side.

Not that long ago, women were thought to be lacking in capacity for sexual enjoyment. But
in the early '60s, sexual researchers Masters and Johnson proved that women are anatomically and physiologically capable of experiencing sexual pleasure and achieving orgasm just like men.  And yet, there must be something amiss, because the popular press reports that millions of American women fake orgasm during intercourse, for they are often unable to achieve them.  This is, in general, an indication that women are not experiencing the level of pleasure and arousal necessary to bring on orgasm.  For too many women, the lure of would-be delicious sex often turns out to be a disappointing experience that leaves them hungering for something more.  And for some women, active intercourse thrusting can even cause discomfort or pain.  The following comments taken from the book, Sex As Nature Intended It, show the frustration, disappointment, and discomfort women can experience:

"Sometimes it's too much work for too little reward.  When it's over, I think to myself, 'Thank God he finally came!' "

"Sometimes, I get sore after sex.  Yes, I would sometimes classify it as pain ."

"I often experienced discomfort with my husband, at which point I would usually try to hurry him along, first physically and if that didn't work, verbally ."

"I had a feeling of sadness, lack of satisfaction, emptiness, and frustration after intercourse with my husband.  I never remember feeling like a whole woman during my marriage."

"My husband was totally engrossed in satisfying his own sexual needs.  He pounded and banged as if he were having intercourse with a non-feeling person."

The above comments are about "circumcised intercourse." They were expressed by women who share a special vantage point—they have all had the comparative experience of sexual intercourse with both circumcised and uncircumcised men.  These women participated in the book's unique survey of such women, and it is one of the keynotes of the book.  It was the first survey ever conducted on this topic, and it unearthed many startling revelations.

One of the most important findings was that women reported dramatic differences between "circumcised intercourse" (man has a circumcised penis) and "natural intercourse" (man has a natural penis, as it's provided by nature at birth, uncircumcised).

The stunning bottom line of the survey is:
Women overwhelmingly preferred sex with the natural penis by a margin of  9 to 1.  (Considering that these women had significantly more circumcised partners than natural partners, one would think they would prefer the type of penis they were most familiar with, but such was not the case.) Moreover—and this is astonishing—women were almost 5 times likelier to achieve vaginal orgasm when the man had a natural, uncircumcised penis.

"Could this really be true?" you ask! 

  • Could the surgically altered circumcised penis lessen a woman's capability for achieving vaginal orgasm?

  • Could it could cause her various degrees of displeasure, discomfort, or pain during intercourse?

  • Could the shortcomings and disappointments of circumcised sex lessen a woman's passion and desire for her mate?

Well, there's good news, and bad news.  The bad news is that the answer to all these questions is "yes." The good news is that the opening page of this website offered a solution.  And there is—foreskin restoration (loosely defined as "regrowing" the foreskin using various non-surgical techniques that expand and extend the penile shaft skin).  This topic—though it may seem radical—will be discussed in a minute.

But first, it should interest you to know that most of the world's men (approximately 80%) are
not circumcised.  America is one of the few countries that practices routine infant circumcision.  Circumcision is not the standard in the world; it is the exception.

The following "joke" may help to underscore the difference a natural penis can make to a woman:

What does the French woman say after making love? "Oo La La!" What does the Italian woman say? "Mama Mia!" What does the American woman say? "Jim, the ceiling needs painting."  Why such a difference? Because European men are not usually circumcised.

Sex As Nature Intended It
is written to women—in particular, to you—an American woman married to (or in a relationship with) a circumcised man.  Kristen O'Hara, the author, talks to you as an intimate friend would over lunch.  She leans toward you, drops her voice, and whispers, "Let me tell you a big secret—
the key to a woman's sexual ecstasy is the foreskin of the penis."


Until you've had sex with a whole, fully functioning, softly-stiff natural penis, you haven't really had sex.  You only think you have.  In actuality, you've only had circumcised sex.  As a woman who's experienced both types of sex, allow me to say the words women will later come to speak for themselves: Sex with a circumcised penis and sex with a uncircumcised penis are as different as night and day.  They are as different as viewing the harsh, blinding light of the sun at noon vs. the softer, reflected light of the romantic midnight moon.

The specialized functions of the foreskin allow a man and woman to experience intercourse in accordance with nature's sexual plantenderly, delicately, and lovinglyas they mutually surrender to an enrapturing ecstasy that binds them so close it's as if the two were one.  The protective functions of the foreskin give the natural penis head a softly-stiff giveability that makes it feel exquisitely delicious as it gently caresses the vaginal walls.  This, in combination with the foreskin itself—the penis's only moving part—enables the sex act to be gentle, softly-smooth, and spellbindingly sensuous—unlike anything you've ever felt before.

Could the foreskin really make that much of a difference during intercourse? Yes, yes, oohh yes, the natural penis make a superlative difference in the lovemaking experience.  Whatever pleasure you may or may not be experiencing from intercourse now—only one thing is certain: When the foreskin is added, things will only get better—unbelievably better, indescribably better.  Beyond your highest expectations.  Here is a comment from a survey respondent:

"I experienced a huge difference between circumcised and uncircumcised men.  Until I met my natural husband, I thought that the rough, dry circumcised penis was the way it was supposed to be.  WOW!  I had been missing genuine, naturally satisfying sex and now have the utmost appreciation for the 'real thing.' There is such a remarkable difference, in all aspects of sex—from foreplay and fellatio to intercourse. In retrospect, I now consider the circumcised penis as a sort of unreal 'device' that made intercourse a not very pleasing experience that often left me sore.  I now have orgasms that were very rare with circumcised men."

Shere Hite, author of the famous book, The Hite Report, of the mid-70s, surveyed 3,000 women on various aspects of their sexuality.  One of the astounding findings of this survey was that 70% OF THESE WOMEN COULD NOT ORGASM REGULARLY FROM INTERCOURSE.  That figure—70%—represents the approximate percentage of circumcised men in the adult population at that time (men born before the mid-50s).

During the 20th century in America, circumcision was performed routinely by the medical community, principally because it was thought to have medical benefits—benefits that have now been discredited. The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) recently conducted a two-year intensive review of the medical literature on circumcision from the last 40 years.  As a result, they issued a policy statement in March, 1999, declaring that existing scientific evidence demonstrating potential medical benefits of newborn male circumcision "are not sufficient to recommend routine neonatal [infant] circumcision." Subsequently, in August, 2000, the American Medical Association (AMA), the largest medical association in America, posted a statement on their website concurring with the AAP's findings, saying routine infant circumcision is "non-therapeutic" and unnecessary.  Because of this, the already declining circumcision rate in America is sure to continue spiraling downward.  Non-circumcision is simply an idea whose time has come.

This revolutionary book presents irrefutable evidence that the foreskin plays an inherent role in adult sexuality.  It demonstrates conclusively that when the penis is surgically altered by circumcision, the sex act is astoundingly abnormalized for both the man and the woman on the receiving end of the penis. 

Since the typical American woman has experienced only circumcised intercourse, she doesn't realize that her pleasure is adversely affected, nor does she realize the extent to which she is displeasured.  She accepts the various negativities of circumcised intercourse as a normal part of having sex and simply tries to make the best of the situation, never realizing that her pleasure, responsiveness, and orgasmic capabilities are significantly compromised.  Sadly, the sex act may often leave a woman feeling frustrated, dissatisfied, and unfulfilled.  Never conceiving that his surgically altered penis is the real root of the problem, many American women have come to think that they are "frigid," or that perhaps something else is wrong with them.  When, in actuality, it's the fault of circumcision.

And regrettably, the negative effects of circumcision don't necessarily end at the sex organs.  The incompleteness, shortcomings, and dissatisfaction of circumcised intercourse can negatively impact the psychological attitude of one or both partners, which may lead to various degrees of relationship unhappiness, and marital bickering and discord.  (Although the partners may not realize that the true underlying cause is sexual—arguing, instead, about everything else under the sun.)  This can gradually erode the relationship and may eventually set the stage for divorce.  It is not just coincidental that the divorce rate in America is more than double that of Western European countries where men are not usually circumcised.

The above may seem like a drastic jump—from circumcision, to non-sexual arguments in the living room, to divorce court—but the book will open your eyes to how this tragic course of events can come about.
  As a woman intimately involved with a circumcised man and wanting to maintain a successful marriage, this book could keep you from experiencing a great deal of unhappiness and pain in your life—and bring you much joy instead.

The information in this book will set you free.  And set your partner free.  Free to develop and experience a higher love for your partner, and he for you.  Free to experience your true sexuality and the overriding relationship happiness it will bring to your life.  For luckily, the miracle of foreskin restoration is now possible.  Not only is it possible, but it is about to capture America's consciousness and sweep us all off our feet by surprise.  More and more, as men begin to read and hear about restoration, they are choosing to "undo" their circumcision and become "uncircumcised" again.

Still, the idea of foreskin restoration may immediately strike you as strange and bizarre.  But as you come to realize the paramount importance of the foreskin to sexual pleasure (and the love bond that develops from sexual union), it will begin to seem a very reasonable and realistic solution for today's circumcised men (and the women they share their bed with).  As the sexual negativities of circumcision gain national notoriety
—which is destined to happen, and is already happening—men will unquestionably want to restore.  And their female partners will be enthusiastically encouraging them to do so.  Through the promise of restoration, circumcised men, and their female partners, can resurrect the sexuality that was stolen from them and discover together the "born again" pleasures of sex as nature intended it.  Ultimately, the book will enrich the lives of millions by vastly improving the lovemaking experience of countless men and women, every time they have sex, and make love, re-cementing the love bond.

One riveting aspect of the book is the author's own tastefully erotic, dynamic story about her "circumcised experiences" and her discovery of the wonders of "natural sex."

Another fascinating chapter includes the personal stories of women who participated in the survey. 

Additional personal stories and scores of comments about all aspects of this fascinating topic are frequently interspersed throughout the explanatory text, adding spice and a sense of secret exposé that make for captivating reading.  You're sure to find a certain satisfaction in peeking into the intimate sexual experiences and love relationships of these women who tell it like it is.  Below is a sampling of the kinds of comments that appear in this tell-all book.

"My natural partner kept more constant contact and pressure on my whole genital area during intercourse, so I never felt like he was 'banging away' but that he was with me and pleasuring me."

"I hear a lot of women saying they think a natural penis is ugly and wouldn't want to have sex with one, but they've never tried it.  I felt that way too before I had sex with a natural man."

"With circumcised, when the man is too forceful with his thrusting I lose all sense of feeling.  The glans of the circumcised male feels rough, and the shaft is too hard, unnatural.  It is not the same as with a natural penis."

"My sexual experiences with three natural men were extraordinary in the gentleness, sensuality, and mutuality of the experience."

"There is much more tenderness, [during natural intercourse] it's much more a joint experience rather than one-sided."

You won't find a boring page in this thought-provoking book.  And you will be pleased to learn that there is a natural, comfortable sexual position that virtually guarantees vaginal orgasm 99.99% of the time.  Also, the book reveals a simple sexual secret that can virtually eliminate premature ejaculation.  These two secrets alone are worth 1000 times the price of the book.

Written in an easy to understand language and style, infused with the passion of a poet's heart, the truth of nature proclaimed in this landmark 20-chapter book is destined to become one of the most important women's issues of our time as it lights the twin revolutionary fires of greater sexual quality/equality, and greater love between the sexes.


Sex As Nature Intended It: The Most Important Thing You Need to Know About Making Love But No One Could Tell You Until Now
is one of the most important books you will ever read in your life
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Top 10 Ways Circumcised Sex Harms Women

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The aforementioned survey of women—women who have had sexual experience with both types of penises—unearthed many mind-boggling revelations.   click here to continue reading...
 

Reader Comments

Christiane Northrup, M.D., author of Women's Bodies, Women's Wisdom:

 I've always felt that the male foreskin is there for a reason.  Until recently, I didn't know exactly what that reason was.  But now, thanks to Kristen O'Hara's well-researched book, I finally understand the reasons for the design of the penis and foreskin, and how this design ensures optimal penile function, including the intact organ's ability to satisfy the female sexually.

Reviewer: Allen from Missouri

After reading several books on circumcision, if I could recommend only one,. . .this would be the one. 
[It] completely answers the question why you should try to reverse your circumcision / restore your foreskin and why infant circumcision should never happen in the first place.  Amazon.com will only let you give a book 5 stars.  I would've gladly given this book 100 stars.
Reviewer: Jim from CA

Many have hitherto assumed that the male foreskin is an extraneous flap of skin that serves no physical or sexual purpose. . .This is the first publication to go into depth about the sexual toll that comes with slicing off foreskins.
Reviewer: Linda from CA

The truth is finally here. . . For women like me, in a wonderful marriage for 20 yrs. and having had great circumcised sex for the first 12, (with only slight discomfort), this book finally put into words the logic and reasons for my lack of interest, and sometimes distress, about sex.

Every woman should read this book. . . It makes so much sense to me now, as I always assumed my lack of desire was all my problem.  A lot of wives out there have sex for their husband's sake, and I'm sure they wonder why they don't "feel like it" anymore.

I am so sorry that my husband and I have been robbed of our ability for fulfilling, NATURAL sex.  I highly recommend this book.

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 TABLE OF CONTENTS  

 1.  The Secret Enters the Spotlight

 2.  Something Is Missing

 3.  "The Tie That Binds" a Loving Relationship

4.  How the Natural & Circumcised Penis Perform
     Sex Differently

 5.  Gliding Mechanism of the Natural Penis versus
      the Friction Burn of the Circumcised Penis

 6.  Further Sexual Comparisons:
      How the Two Penises Perform Differently and
      Why's It's especially Important to the Woman

 7.  Personal "Tell-All" Stories:  What's Really Going
      On in America's Bedrooms

8A.  Normal Thrusting Rhythm of the Natural Penis
       vs. the Abnormal Thrusting Rhythm of
       the Circumcised Penis

8B.  Male Clitoris: Its Discovery, Pleasurement,
       and How It Affects the Thrusting Rhythm

 9.  Why Does the Circumcised Man Thrust Hard
      and/or Bang and Pound Away?

10.  It's Over in a Flash!  But What If It Lasts?
       And Desire Deficiency: Hers, His

11.  Author's Personal Story

12.  Foreskin Restoration Revolution and the
       Personal Stories of Two Men Who Restored,
       One by Surgery, Another by "Tugging"

13.  Survey Results of Women Sexually Experienced
       with Both Circumcised and Uncircumcised Men

14.  The Real Reason American Men are Circumcised

15.  35 Reasons Why You Should Not Circumcise

16.  Are There Valid Reasons for Circumcising?

17.  Common Myths That Popularized Circumcision

18.  Medical Myths That Perpetuate Circumcision

19.  Will the Jewish People Disavow Circumcision?

Afterword by George C. Denniston, M.D.

Appendixes:

How to Have a Vaginal Orgasm 99.99% of the Time

How to Minimize Premature Ejaculation:
A Simple Secret for Prolonging Intercourse

A Solution for those Men Who Take Longer To
Reach Orgasm Than the Woman Wants Them To

Male Clitoris Explained in Further Detail:
Excerpts & Pics from Sevely's book, Eve's Secrets

Reprint of Author's Article from the
BJU (British Journal of Urology) International:
    "The effect of male circumcision on
      the sexual enjoyment of the female partner"

Survey Questionnaire for Women Experienced Sexually with Both Circumcised & Uncirc'd Men

Glossary    Resources

Reference Notes    Index


revealed
Survey results revealed that:

  • Women were almost 5 times likelier to achieve vaginal orgasm when the man had a natural penis.

  • Surveyed women overwhelmingly preferred sex with the natural penis by a margin of 9 to 1.  

  • When the man had a circumcised penis, women experienced considerably more discomfort during intercourse.

  • With circumcised men, premature ejaculation was significantly more common.

One riveting aspect of the book is the author's own tastefully erotic, dynamic story about her "circumcised experiences" and her discovery of the wonders of "natural sex."

Another fascinating chapter includes the personal stories of women who participated in the survey. Additional personal stories and scores of comments about all aspects of this fascinating topic are frequently interspersed throughout the explanatory text, adding spice and a sense of secret exposé that make for captivating reading. You're sure to find a certain satisfaction in peeking into the intimate sexual experiences and love relationships of these women who tell it like it is. Below is a sampling of the kinds of comments that appear in this tell-all book.

"My natural partner kept more constant contact and pressure on my whole genital area during intercourse, so I never felt like he was 'banging away' but that he was with me and pleasuring me."

"I hear a lot of women saying they think a natural penis is ugly and wouldn't want to have sex with one, but they've never tried it. I felt that way too before I had sex with a natural man."

"With circumcised, when the man is too forceful with his thrusting I lose all sense of feeling. The glans of the circumcised male feels rough, and the shaft is too hard, unnatural. It is not the same as with a natural penis."

"My circumcised husband was totally engrossed in satisfying his own sexual needs; therefore, he pounded and banged as if he were having intercourse with a non-feeling person."

"My sexual experiences with three natural men were extraordinary in the gentleness, sensuality, and mutuality of the experience."

"There is much more tenderness, [during natural intercourse] it's much more a joint experience rather than one-sided."

These eye-opening stories and comments will bring your emotions to life. And in the end, you will be able to close the book with a secure feeling of settled belief, knowing how lucky you are to share your bed and love life with a man who was lucky, himself, to escape the knife of circumcision. Never again will you have to contend with the doubt that perhaps your man might be better off with a circumcised penis, since it is the cultural norm in America. Instead, you'll be enlightened to the truth of nature proclaimed in the book: The foreskin plays a multifaceted role in the intercourse experience of both the man and his female partner, and the lovemaking couple can only hope to achieve their true potential for sexual ecstasy when the penis is natural, whole, and fully functioning.

This fascinating book also contains several secret tips to make your sex life even better. Tips you won't find anywhere else. Now and then, any man can have a problem with premature ejaculation. This book will teach you a valuable secret on how to eliminate this problem, so you can prolong intercourse for your mutual pleasure and the deepening love that delicious, natural sex brings.

Or perhaps you don't have a vaginal orgasm (or multiple vaginal orgasms) as often as you'd like. The book contains a simple, comfortable, natural position that virtually guarantees a vaginal orgasm 99.99% of the time. These two tips alone are worth 1000 times the price of the book.

Or perhaps your partner is one of the small minority of intact men whose foreskin cannot retract over its glans (penis head), medically known as phimosis. The book offers a non-surgical solution for that too.

Written in an easy to understand language and style, infused with the passion of a poet's heart, the truth of nature proclaimed in this landmark 20-chapter book is destined to become one of the most important women's issues of our time as it lights the twin revolutionary fires of greater sexual quality/equality, and greater love between the sexes.

Even though your partner has a natural penis, you may possibly have a son who was circumcised, since this practice is so ingrained in our culture. The book presents a solution to this quandary—foreskin restoration (loosely defined as "regrowing" the foreskin using various non-surgical techniques that expand and extend the penile shaft skin).

This concept may sound radical, but as America comes to realize the paramount importance of the foreskin to sexual pleasure, it will emerge as a very reasonable solution for those who have already been circumcised. The circumcision rate has been declining for two decades. Non-circumcision and the natural penis will soon be commonplace. You need to be informed about foreskin restoration so you, or your husband, can do the right thing by bringing this information to the attention of your son at the appropriate time. As a parent, you want your child to live a happy life. Sexual happiness is primary to his life as an adult and his future marital happiness.

In summary, Sex As Nature Intended It  is one of the most important books—if not the most important—you will ever read, for both your own sexual happiness, and that of your children.

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