"My circumcised husband is thoughtful during foreplay and concentrates a lot on my pleasure, but as soon as the penetration starts, the fun part is over for me.  During intercourse, the thrusts hurt my insides and afterwards the pain way up in my vagina lasts about a day."

"Vaginal tissues get rubbed raw with a circumcised penis.  I always thought sex was painful until I had intercourse with an uncircumcised man.  With the natural penis, I didn’t experience abrasion."

"The older I get the more it hurts and now I just don't even want it.  I used to be very into sex.  For years, I thought it was just me, that there was something wrong with me.  But there isn't.  There is something missing from his penis and as a result sex hurts.  It's just not fair to us that his mother allowed him to be circumcised.  It wasn't her penis, and now we're paying the price."

"After about 6 years straight of circumcised sex, I met a British guy, natural, who was living in the USA.  He was nothing like an Italian culturally, but when making love to him, it was that feeling again like I had had with the Italian guy—that thing I thought that I would never know again.  Then finally, it dawned on me: It was not the Italian culture that made those Italian guys so different. it was simply natural sex without abrasion and pain.

Now you might say that YOU don't have pain or abrasion, and I am glad for you if that's the case.  But I've known it both ways, and I know now that the pain I felt was no fault of mine—of being dry, or frigid, or too tight, or whatever—it was not a problem within ME because there was no problem when my body had normal, natural sex.

I know that the pain is directly linked to the fact that the lovers I had pain with had the skin of their penis surgically removed, so every inch of their thrusting had to be accommodated by my body and my lubrication in an unnatural way.

When my lover's penis has the natural buffer of movable skin over its corona, I had no such pain.  And it did not matter if he was a one night stand or a steady boyfriend, a hottie, a dud, or the love of my life—the physical reality of it all is something I now understand.

I don't orgasm easily, and I certainly don't when I am hurting.  Nor when I am doing the math in my head, like "Hmmm... How many minutes is this going to last?  3 more minutes and I will be hurting so bad, the big O will be the last thing on my mind." 

But when I had natural sex, I never had to worry or plan.  I could simply receive an orgasm when it came, rather than having to struggle for it, or plan for it, or try to find the good feelings while simultaneously trying to drown out the negative thoughts and sensations which would inevitably creep in during circumcised sex."

"I've now figured out why sex hurts so bad!  I have gone to so many doctors and have even been put on medications because sex is SO PAINFUL for me that I more often than not end up begging (in my mind) for it to be over."

"My circumcised husband requires an enormous amount of thrusting stimulation to achieve orgasm.  I dread the moment when the foreplay stops, and actual intercourse begins.  He tries to be gentle at first, but steadily his thrusting intensity increases. Eventually, the pain becomes more than I can endure, and I have to ask him to stop."

"I went with one circumcised guy who was into long sessions.  After a while, I'd start to feel as if he was sandpapering me down there."

"With the circumcised penis, I feel the tight shaft and glans —specifically the rim of the glans—thrusting in and out.  After a few minutes, it starts to hurt."

"We're not talking about asking our men to restore their foreskins for cosmetic reasons, rather—to restore a basic functionality to the marriage bed!"

"My husband said he started restoration for me....but then he started feeling benefits for himself...then both of us did. It's interesting how many negative sensations have gone away for me. In particular, I don't get irritated by the coronal ridge anymore (now there is skin behind that bunches), and the whole penis feels softer and more cushiony.  Firm yet soft; very comfortable.  Before, it felt like more of a broom handle -- ultra stiff (ack).  And definitely there's less friction irritation; now more of a gliding feel."